{"id":263,"date":"2009-02-05T11:05:36","date_gmt":"2009-02-05T11:05:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/2009\/02\/05\/a-happy-happy-birthday\/"},"modified":"2009-02-05T11:05:36","modified_gmt":"2009-02-05T11:05:36","slug":"a-happy-happy-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/05\/a-happy-happy-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"A happy, happy, birthday."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week my (Michelle) dad had an infection that did not respond to the prescribed antibiotics and the infection went septic.&#0160; He was inches away from death.&#0160; His kidneys had begun to shut down and his dear friend, Dr. John Moorhouse literally saved his life.&#0160; I flew out to be with he and my mom as he recovered in the hospital.&#0160; When we had a minute alone, I finally broke down and just sobbed all over the place.&#0160; There were no regrets, apologies or unspoken words of love that we needed to catch up on, accelerated by the gravity of the situation.&#0160; We had no unfinished business between us.&#0160; There was just straight up, hurt-so-good love.&#0160; He is an amazing man who has loved me well and his pain is surely mine.&#0160; It is his 65th birthday today and let me tell you, we are celebrating.&#0160; We are celebrating that he is alive!&#0160; He is the treasured patriarch of our family and we are so, so thankful for him.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barryandmichelle.typepad.com\/.a\/6a00e553d96a5d8833010537100ba2970b-pi\" style=\"display: inline;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Dad\" border=\"0\" class=\"at-xid-6a00e553d96a5d8833010537100ba2970b image-full \" src=\"http:\/\/barryandmichelle.typepad.com\/.a\/6a00e553d96a5d8833010537100ba2970b-800wi\" style=\"width: 440px; height: 440px;\" title=\"Dad\" \/><\/a>\n<\/p>\n<p>His upbringing was lacking, so say the least, and he was never given the tools to be a good parent.&#0160; Generational brokenness would have destroyed his life, if not for redemption.&#0160; When I was a young girl, my dad encountered Jesus and allowed Him into his pain.&#0160; He began a transformation that no one imagined possible and His heavenly Father gave him what his earthly father never could.&#0160; If you were to hear his story, you would be dumbfounded.&#0160; It just doesn&#39;t add up.&#0160; He should be a mess and so should his children. But he isn&#39;t!&#0160; Because of Jesus, he is healed and whole.&#0160; Because of Jesus, he freely gives the purest love to us.&#0160; He has no smell of smoke on him.<\/p>\n<p>I wrote the song, &quot;Smoke&quot; for my dad&#39;s birthday 5 years ago.&#0160; Give it a listen and celebrate redemption with us this day.&#0160; My dad, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.russellthornberry.com\" target=\"_blank\">Roark Russell Thornberry<\/a>, turns 65 this day. Dad, I celebrate your life with increasing passion and a grateful heart.&#0160; I love you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barryandmichelle.typepad.com\/files\/03-smoke.mp3\"><span class=\"at-xid-6a00e553d96a5d8833010537100051970b\">Download 03 Smoke<\/span><\/a>\n<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">SMOKE<\/p>\n<p>OH WHEN I\u2019M WITH YOU<br \/>I SOMETIMES FORGET<br \/>JUST WHERE YOU HAVE COME FROM<br \/>YOU WEAR NO SIGNS OF IT<br \/>BUT I STILL RECALL THE STORIES<br \/>FOR I HAVE HEARD THEM TOLD<br \/>HOW YOU WORE THE HEAVY CLOAK OF GRIEF<br \/>WHEN YOU WERE FAR FROM OLD<\/p>\n<p>TRAGEDY OF TRAGEDIES<br \/>TO THINK YOU WERE BETRAYED<br \/>AND ALL THE INNOCENCE IN YOU<br \/>TANGLED UP AND FRAYED<br \/>&#0160;LIKE SALT ON ANY WOUND IT WAS<br \/>TO BE THE ONE TO STAND<br \/>IN FOR YOUR FATHER ALL THOSE YEARS<br \/>AS IF YOU WERE A MAN<\/p>\n<p>YEAH, THAT\u2019S THE WAY IT HAPPENED<br \/>AND NOW YOU\u2019D NEVER TELL<br \/>NO SMELL OF SMOKE GOT ON YOU<br \/>WHEN YOU WALTZED RIGHT OUT OF HELL<br \/>OR WAS IT YOU WERE LIFTED<br \/>BY A HAND YOU DIDN\u2019T SEE<br \/>AND THE EYES THAT WITNESSED ALL THAT HURT<br \/>SAW YOU LOVING ME<\/p>\n<p>THE BITTER PILL OF ROMANCE<br \/>WAS A TRAITOR TO THE CORE<br \/>IF YOU NEVER HAVE BEEN TRULY LOVED<br \/>BY ANYONE BEFORE<br \/>AND PAIN IT IS A CIRCLE<br \/>AND TIME WILL BRING IT ROUND<br \/>YEAH, BUT YOU DID LEARN TO WALK IN IT<br \/>WHEN IT WOULD DRAG YOU DOWN<\/p>\n<p>YEAH THAT\u2019S THE WAY IT HAPPENED<br \/>AND NOW YOU\u2019D NEVER TELL<br \/>NO SMELL OF SMOKE GOT ON YOU<br \/>WHEN YOU WALTZED RIGHT OUT OF HELL<br \/>OR WAS IT YOU WERE LIFTED BY A HAND YOU DIDN\u2019T SEE<br \/>AND THE EYES THAT WITNESSED ALL THAT HURT<br \/>SAW YOU LOVING ME<br \/>OH AND BROKENNESS IS FUNNY<br \/>HOW IT TENDERIZES YOU<br \/>BEFORE YOU MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES<br \/>YOU LET IT PASS ON THROUGH.<\/p>\n<p>NOW I\u2019M A BENEFACTOR<br \/>CAUSE I GOT NOTHING BUT YOUR LOVE<br \/>AND I\u2019M GLAD I CAN\u2019T REMEMBER <br \/>WHAT IT WAS YOU ROSE ABOVE<br \/>I SOMETIMES FORGET<br \/>I SOMETIMES FORGET<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week my (Michelle) dad had an infection that did not respond to the prescribed antibiotics and the infection went septic.&#0160; He was inches away from death.&#0160; His kidneys had begun to shut down and his dear friend, Dr. John &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/05\/a-happy-happy-birthday\/\">Continue Reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=263"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barryandmichelle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}